Judgemental Freak.

“Hey, look at that girl. She’s so fat. She must be eating non-stop.”

“Euww that boy. His pimples and acnes disgust me to death. Yuckss!”

“Oh my God, her clothes are too tight. Doesn’t she know how to cover her aurah properly?”

STOP! STOP! STOP! STOP! STOP! STOP! STOP!

Hey dude. Come on! Stop being some sort of judgemental freak. What if you try to put yourself in their shoes first instead of judging them? You never know what they have been through. Who are you to judge people? It is God’s right to judge people. In my context God is Allah S.W.T. He is the best planner; He knows the best for his creation. So please, do not take over God’s responsibility.

There is this one people who inspired me with her phrase. She told me, “If you have never been this BIG,don’t tell people how to be this BIG!” . Which means if you have not been in someone situation, do not ever tell that people what to do and what not to do. You do not know, maybe they have tried out their very best to be better but for somehow it does not work. So, stop judging.

Don't you know, by saying those words such as, “He’s dumb. I don’t want him to be in my group,” or etc you are actually stressing those people. You are not helping them to be better. Have you ever heard the news of people killing themselves because of the pressure they received? So please, you do not have to be one of the factor that caused a person to kill him/herself. In any religion itself, we are asked to help people to be better, guiding them to the right pathway instead of condemning them.

We, the creation of Allah S.W.T are never perfect. Each of us has our own specialties and weaknesses. Look at yourself! What do you have? Bear in your mind that what you have now, not all peoples are having the same thing like you. And if you think you are good enough, remember that there is someone which is much better than you out there. Just be grateful. 

                                                                                                  Lots of love,

                                                                                                     ZuBearMar